Photo a Day: 27th February

This photo of The Boy Child, The Brainy One, my FiL and my Sil was taken at 5pm yesterday afternoon.
At 9am this morning, my FiL suffered a massive heart attack and, despite the heroic efforts of the paramedics who worked on him for an hour and a half, he died.
I have no words to describe how I feel right now, but I am trying to take comfort from two things.  Firstly, his last week of life was filled with love and laughter; he was with all his immediate family ~ daughter, son, SiL, DiL and three grandsons.  Secondly, he was struggling to cope with his life without his adored wife of almost 60 years.  He missed her terribly.  It is less than 11 months since she passed away.  
I don’t know how much blog posting and reading will go on over the next week or so. I’m committed to a Blog Hop post on Thursday afternoon, but it may be all for a while.  It may be that blogging and reading your blogs will prove to be helpful, as it did last time.
Whatever happens, I know that you’ll understand.

27 thoughts on “Photo a Day: 27th February

  1. Oh Ruth, how terrible for you all! I am So sorry to hear this. I hope you will be able to comfort each other and that everything goes smoothly with all the inevitable arrangements.
    I'll be thinking of you – I remember how shocked we all were when my boyfriend's father died (we were together 13 years and his dad was like my fil really). Dad B had a stroke.
    I am sad for you all and will remember you in my prayers.
    God Bless you. XXX

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  2. Oh Ruth – such a shock for you and your family. Words seem meaningless in these situations but you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself xxx

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  3. :o( Sitting at my computer crying tears of sadness for you, dear friend. I'm so sorry to read this, and rest assured you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Don't worry about blogging…it (and we) will be here when you are ready. ♥ ♥ ♥

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  4. Ruth – I am so sorry for your family's loss, grateful that you were able to take comfort for that last week of love and laughter. I hope the preparations and service go as smoothly as possible and the good memories bring comfort to your family at this time.

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  5. Oh Ruth…I am so sorry to hear about your FIL. Yesterday will be a lovely memory to hold on to…and now you must focus on your family and getting through the coming days.
    Rest assured you will all be in my thoughts and prayers
    Hugs
    Alison xx

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  6. So sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It must be comforting to know his last week was full of family and that photo will be so special in years to come. Take as long as you need, we'll still be here when you feel up to blogging again. xxx

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  7. Like all the other comments here I am so sorry for your loss Ruth. I hope you find some comfort from the fact that your dear fil had such a lovely last week filled with love. Take care of yourself and your little family. xxx

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  8. I am so saddened to hear of your loss Ruth, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
    Like others before me, please take care of yourself and the family and know that we are thinking of you all and keeping you in our prayers.

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  9. Ruth, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am lifting prayers for comfort and strength for you and your loved ones. That last week of love and laughter and family is such a gift. My grandmother's last few days were like that. She passed away 22 years ago and Mama and I were just talking this weekend about how those days filled her with great joy and we cherish it. Take your time and we'll see you when the time is right for you and yours.

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  10. I haven't been visiting blog land much recently but I saw Denise today and she passed on this news. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, what a dreadful shock to you all. How wonderful that the end of his life was spent with those he loved and who loved him back. Take care x

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